Well for future reference? That's literally the most demeaning excuse you could make.

[Iris is used to the men in her life trying to keep her separate and safe. That wasn't really the issue. The problem was that at the end of the day, she felt useless. She felt like they didn't believe she could help, that she'd only be in the way or get hurt and whatever good she could do, didn't outweigh the risk she was.

And that. That is the hardest thing for her to deal with.]

It doesn't matter right now anyway. We need to focus on getting home.